Nnadiebube Journal of Religion, Culture and Society

The phrase "for better, for worse" is a solemn vow often exchanged during Christian marriage ceremonies, symbolizing a lifelong commitment to endure both joyful and challenging times together. However, in many modern marriages, this vow is increasingly tested by the rising incidences of domestic violence. This study explores the meaning and application of the "for better, for worse" concept in the context of abusive marriages, with particular reference to Abagana, a town in Anambra State, Nigeria. Using qualitative methods such as interviews, observations, and case studies, the research investigates how cultural expectations, religious beliefs, economic pressures, and gender roles contribute to the endurance of violence in marriages under the guise of marital commitment. The findings reveal that many victims, especially women, remain in violent relationships due to fear of social stigma, misinterpretation of religious teachings, and economic dependency. The study concludes that while the marital vow emphasizes perseverance, it should not justify or tolerate abuse. It recommends increased awareness, pastoral counseling, legal reforms, and empowerment programs as necessary steps toward protecting the dignity and safety of partners in marriage.

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